Your choice to be happy / sad

I had a very "interesting" conversation with a friend the other day. D's theory 'the best way to get better is to do nothing and suffer, time will heal'. I find it very funny. Why should we do nothing and suffer just to get better? Life is short. Although deep inside we are hurting, we should enjoy our time, make it meaningful rather than suffering on our own. In both ways, time will still heal. It's just a matter of being optimistic or pessimistic towards the situation you are in.

The show Your Hand In Mine said that when the Cupid shoots his arrows, he shot 2 arrows at the same time. The 1st is the arrow of happiness while the other is the arrow of sorrow. Missing a person is a difficult thing and can some time be sorrowful. So, it depends on whether you are optimistic or pessimistic towards a situation. Being able to miss a person and being missed by a person is a sort of happiness. So, be more optimistic then you wouldn't feel so bad when you are missing someone and waiting for their call...