Don't SHOUT!

It's the season of 得空死,不得空病。I am still doing my work now. Friday's leave so not on time but already plan 1 year in advance. I am someone who follows thing from step one to end and I hate missing out parts of it. Damn hard to ask me to let go for a few days when everything is starting up to role after it's been left hanging for so many months.

No time but I really need to get a doctor to treat my skin problem. Every night also don't have a good sleep. My manager just told me when he was sending me home today that I look damn exhausted. Not as lively and energetic as I use to be. I need more peace as I'm feeling the tension now. I am exhausted but it's the "argument" season. I purposely went and look back for the article that I've shared on Facebook last year and print out the article and slip it under someone's door.

Here's the article that's very worth sharing:


ONCE a professor asked his students: “Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?” The students thought for a while before one of them said: “We shout because we lose our calm.”

“But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?”

The students gave various answers, none of which satisfied the professor.

Finally he explained: “When two people are angry with each other, their hearts distance. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the louder they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.

Then he asked: “What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small.

“When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak – they only whisper and get closer to each other in their love.

“Finally they do not even need to whisper. They only look at each other, that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.”

So, when you argue, do not let your hearts get distant or say words that distance each other even more, or there may come a day when the distance is so great you will not find the path back to each other.

It's so meaningful. It's very worth sharing with everyone. Whenever you have problem/issue with you love one; be it your partner, lover or family, never shout and argue with the one you care for. Talk peacefully and sort the problem out together so that the relationship doesn't sore.